Hi... I’ve been married for almost 4 years, my husband struggles with anxiety and we had a lot of problems along the way. We had horrible fights and both said bad things, I always felt he was emotionally abusing me but never new if it was just me, as he says offer, having a victim complex. Anyways he never hit me, it’s always been just words and poor treatment sometimes.

That is how it is with me. I recently found out that he was emotionally and physically abusive in his other 2 serious relationships, both exes escalated to the police and one of them even got him arrested once, he claims the arrest was the result of his “crazy ex’s mind” and also her desire for revenge.

He says he hurt her by accident but she used it against him.

I am scared.

We are trying to have a baby and I’m scared.

What should I do?