11 days late...

I’m currently about 11 days late but idk when to take a test. I’ve had cramps, (what I think is spotting but I’m not sure), weird cravings, mood swings, breasts are tender, headaches, backache, nausea, bloating, my breasts have also gotten bigger. Both me and my fiancé think they have.

Idk when I should take the test?

2 weeks late? 3 weeks late? A month late?

I’m honestly not sure. I’m petrified of having another negative test result. My fiancé and I are completely invested in trying for this baby and having one because I’ve wanted one for over 3 years and my fiancé has wanted one for 6/7 months. We finally decided to just go for it.

Someone please advice us. At the moment I’m going to do it at 2 weeks late but I’m not sure if that’s a good idea or a bad one because if I get a negative result cause I did it too soon then it’s going kill us both mentally and physically.

Someone please just advice me on when to take it. TIA xx