BDing feels like such a chore sometimes...

My partner and I don’t really have high sex drives. We did in the beginning of our relationship but after our first baby, it died down a bit. We BDed 3 times this week (BIG deal for us) in preparation for ovulation at the end of the week... but now it’s the end of the week, I’m still getting negative OPKs.

I’ve got nothing left in me for this cycle. I hate scheduled BDing. Why can’t our body just let off an alarm a few days before egg release.. all this guessing and tracking is so mentally draining. I’m giving up this cycle 😭