Irregular periods suck dick!

So can we all just agree irregular periods are thee worst?! Having a regular period would be so much easier and less stressful. Yes granted we have a longer cycle which means we get more days of ‘freedom’, but that’s where the positives stop for me. Anyone have any advice on how to regulate my period? I honestly have been dodging my new boo for over 8days- due to concern I’ll wake up next to him with my period