Update 2: Last night he told me he needed my social, DL number and paystubs to file. I told him no, lol he did not. He can file and when I’m served I will respond with whatever is needed. I also called him out and guess that his dad told him to say everything he has said and he had nothing to say. He then asked if he could be done as soon as possible since court wasn’t needed. I laughed and told him that if he is refusing to help and leave me DROWNING then I will see him in court and it seemed to change his mind about not helping but we’ll see 🤷🏻‍♀️Today he comes home late from work, digs around the house for HIS paystubs. And then left, as he left I asked if he was going to his dads to have him fill out divorce papers and he said yeah.

I have an hour consult with a lawyer that is pretty well known in town! So I will be waiting to be served!

I also want to address the “isn’t he required to take care of me?” This was not an appropriate way to word this, I was hurt and upset that someone who claimed to love me is leaving me to be screwed. I meant to ask if he will be told to assist me financially will I am in school?

Thank you all for your kind kind words and support. They have helped my heart during this crazy time. I will keep you updated.❤️

Update: I’ve suggested counseling, time away, and several other things. He wants nothing to do with me. For the last two years he has been the bread winner of the family. I have recently gone back to school and cut my work hours down to part time. I also have a pre existing condition that requires an expensive medication.

He told me last night he “consulted an attorney” and I will be getting absolutely nothing in the divorce and that he’s taking the car he bought me. I feel as if this is unfair and wrong. Isnt he required to help me especially since I’m in school? I’m at a loss...I dont even know who he is anymore.

We have been married for two years together for three. In my opinion things were going fine, I thought. We are only 23/24 years old so we’ve had roommates basically our entire relationship until we can get on our feet. Our lease is up at the end of October and we finally have the chance to live alone. I was excited and ready to be 100% the best wife ever and things to be so fun. About 3 weeks ago we talked about kids and we put an application in to get a loan for a house. Then, all of a sudden, two weeks ago, he drops this bomb on me that he doesn’t know if he wants to be together anymore because he hasn’t been happy for quite awhile because of x,y,z. Which are things that we EASILY FIXABLE, but instead he suffered in silence and did not want to discuss them. So now, he’s ending our marriage and won’t give me any time to prove I can be the wife he needs, he doesn’t care to give me one weekend away to try to reconnect, nothing. He won’t give me an inch. I dont know what I’m supposed to do, I was always told you do not give up, but how the hell do I fight for someone who clearly doesn’t want me to? I’m just so lost...