Overwhelmed by my kids and significant other

Hey Guys,

Due to Pandemic Ive been forced to be a stay at home mom! In the beginning I loved it because I had a 9month old and my 9yr old is super independent! Flash forward 3months later I suddenly have a super super busy 1year old BOY! Dad is away at work from 10am until 7pm. He makes good money alone working this shift 5 days a week but once the city opened up he started hanging at his business after hours with friends drinking. Not that he comes home all drunk but he comes in after 10pm 2-3 days. I think its very inconsiderate considering he knows our SON! Staying home with a 1yr old is worst than standing on your feet all day. This is getting depressing and frustrating! I’m very tempted to getting a hotel for a weekend ALONE. I just might lose my mind if I don’t!