Is this normal?

My boyfriends ex/child’s mother had been harassing me via social media. At first I was ignoring it. Then she started telling me to kill my self and threatening to have her uncle who’s a police chief shoot me... I started responding and going off on her. Then I was like. I’m blocking her... i mean every single social media account I had (besides twitter) she was harassing me on!!

Once I blocked her it stopped.

Or so I thought...

Then she started creating text app profiles to harass me. Telling me that my boyfriend is still dealing with her. And more stuff. I ignored her because a few times she told me “he’s with me right now” he was literally sleeping next to me. 😖 so I didn’t believe her. So since she never got a response she feels like I changed my number. Great right?!

Yeah I thought. Until....

She started back up texting me from text apps saying that she was with him in his home town visiting his family. (When in fact I was with him visiting his family) I didn’t respond. She then started sending me texts the next day once she had her friend stalk my Facebook and realized I was with him saying “Tell your boyfriend to get his things out of my house” she sent me that from 5 different text app numbers !!! 5 she sat up and created 5 profiles with 5 different email addresses to harass me!! I never responded... I assume she figured I really changed my number. (Back story on how she got my number she got it from my cousin who is her friend) She stopped texting me from text apps...

2 weeks later...

I started getting friends request from her friends. I immediately blocked every single one of them. Then went on Facebook and typed her name in. Anyone who tagged her in a post or had a picture with her I blocked. (I felt they were stalking me for her) once I did that I felt relieved!! Everything’s fine. Then... I receive a friends request from a female. (Our mutual friends were my mother and a few others) so I accepted it. The profile was about 4 months old.. I thought nothing of it because it had been posting pictures and posting statuses for a few months and had a few friends.. THEN!!! FUCKKNG THEN!!! I received a message from the profile.. In which the person stated that she was a good friend of his Baby momma and was concerned for her friend and tried to convince me to break up with my boyfriend. Lol about 2 messages in I realized it was his baby momma. So I deleted her and put her in the ignore box on Facebook... I set my profile to friends only and I was then left alone...

For 3 days...

So then I got tagged in a post in the middle of the night. It was him laying on his baby mommas couch. With a comment saying “He is never gonna leave you for his family” 🗣 Duh.

Post below.

Like really? You posted this comment which means your mind was telling you that he’s never gonna leave me for you!! Anyways 🙄

I untagged myself, and FaceTimed my boyfriend. He did not have on a black shirt he was not even in the state we live in. He was in a whole nother state 6 hours away. He dropped his location mind you it’s 4am. I was tagged in the post around 1am. He couldn’t have been there and was talking to me on ft and the phone all day until I fell asleep.. I mean it’s obvious she wants him back. Yeah. But this isn’t the way to go about it. It makes her look crazy. Anyways after that we talked on the phone until I fell asleep while we were on the phone she I guess sent me a message confessing that the only reason why she made the fake page was because I had her blocked on everything. Which is weird as hell to me anyways because who goes and makes fake pages to get in contact with someone who don’t wanna contact you? She was begging me to add her on Snapchat. I’m not doing that. Harassment!!! Fatal attraction. Obsession. Psychopath !!! It’s almost like she loves me. Smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ anyways. I read the message and sent it to my boyfriend. 20 minutes later I got tagged in another post. I went straight to the page and blocked it.... I thought that was the end.

I started receiving random ft request from a random email address. All night long. I blocked it & went to bed. Well guess who sends me a fucking message. HIS MOTHER!! BUT IT WASNT HIS MOM. IT WAS HER ON HIS MOMS PAGE. HE DOES MOT DEAL WITB HIS MOM!!! ME AND HIS MOM ARENT FRIENDS ON FACEBOOK AND ONLY HAVE 3 MUTUAL FRIENDS NEVER HAD A CONVERSATION OR ANYTHING. I BLOCKED HIS MOTHER TOO.

At this point

After the fake Facebook page I literally told my boyfriend he can go be with the weird bitch and leave me alone. He caught a fit. Told me hell no he didn’t want her I said don’t tell me tell her. I’m tired. Lmao. So now at this point I do not care. I’m. 28 they’re 25 I cannot deal his friends gf wants to beat her ass for me and she don’t even know me. I’m just like wth !! At this point it’s a circus. This has been going on since April!!! She contacts me again the police and courts will be involved.

Is this normal ? Can someone explain??? Why she would act this way ?? I know that he cannot be giving her the attention nor entertainment that she claims bc she’d be content and not acting out. She’d complying with whatever he says if so. I think she’s losing her mind and cant get him to leave me so she’s trying to get me to leave him but... why would she assume that would work??

Happy hoes ain’t hating and hating hoes ain’t happy right??