Just wondering

Hi ladies just wondering how were you guys able to afford ivf treatment this is my first time my insurance does not cover any of it and the medication alone is super expensive its discouraging... little back story never had an issue getting pregnant been pregnant 13 times and miscarried every single of of them...so my doctor suggested ivf to do some genetic testing but I dont know how I'm gonna afford it since the medication alone is 3500 dollars my boyfriend already said he will help me but I still dont know if I can wring it ...please no rude comments I know children are expensive and all...feeling defeated I really want to know what is causing me to miscarry over and over