Am I being a bitch or what?!

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So I'm 36 weeks and 2 days pregnant. These fuckin people that live upstairs from my apartment (12 unit complex) are slamming stuff, yelling, playing music and just being extremely noisy like EVERYDAY. I'm going on maternity leave Wednesday and I work everyday until then. Am I just being hormonal or what bcus I just wanna seriously slap the person that live up there. It's almost 1am where I live. I need sleep!! This is literally everyday/night. 😒😡😤

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You'll be getting your own back with a baby crying soon!

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Lol no you aren't being a bitch! I'm 38 weeks and still working, & definitely need sleep to be able to cope with it!! I would be so mad

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No you are not being unfair. They are being very rude and inconsiderate. You ahould really get ahold of management and notify them of the disturbance. I live in a house but we have an HOA, if people are being too loud or dogs just bark and bark and bark we can call the HOA and they will notify the homeowners of the disturbance.

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There are noise ordinances for a reason! 👍🏻

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I've called our towns non emergency line for the same dog barking for hours on end. I don't tell them I'm pregnant when I call because I don't want them assuming it's just me being hormonal. Things have gotten better. So no, you're not being rude! If anything, I'd call management and file a complaint. If that doesn't help, I'd call the police department non emergency line to have them address the situation.

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Same here!! It's fucking sucks so bad! There's 3 black guys that live above me & they are rude af they r up all night they make so much noise they don't care how loud they play the music they smoke so much cigarette s there everywhere by my front door my padio

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No you aren't. This occurred with the birth of my first child in our first apartment. We kindly, although I wanted to flip, talked to them and explained our situation. They had 2 small kids so we understood that there would be some noise. But after talking to them it's almost like they intentionally started making more noise. Banging on the floor, loud thumps for hours and after hours on end. That is when we got the broom stick and started giving them warnings. After that we went to mgmt. Sadly they eventually made them move to a ground level. Sorry you are going through this. Some would say move to the top level but you should not have to do that to have peace of living.

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I would first go to these people and tell them your concern before involving management. Always go to the person first and confront them

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