Are we moving too fast?

I have been with my bf for almost a year. I have 2 daughters whom he hasn’t met yet but he’s talked to them over the phone. He’s been wanting to meet them but I just want to make sure he’s the one. I never have them on the weekends (they’re with their dad) unless I have a family event going on, in which he’s not allowed to attend just yet if my daughters will be there. He has been to some though when I don’t have my daughters. Anyways, I’m finally going to have them for a weekend with no family events going on (next weekend) and we’ve been talking about him meeting them. He’s so excited, he’s been looking for places to go and things to do that weekend. A theme park that they love is open this month so he’s going to buy tickets for all of us.

Not only that but he told his roommate (who was only supposed to stay there 6 months but he’s been there for almost 2 years now) that I was going to move in with my daughters soon, that he needed to start looking for a place. Yes, he said that so he moves out sooner but he’s been implying that we move in soon as well. He already loves my daughters and he knows we’re a package deal and although he’s nervous and scared, he’s ready to be a father figure to them. I feel like it’s a perfect time because I’m employed at the school district where I live and I’m currently working from home and my daughters are doing distance learning. This gives us time to adjust before the craziness of having to figure out schedules and it gives me time to look for a job closer to him and look at schools for my daughters for when they return back to school.

My family will probably say we’re moving too fast but the reason he’s meeting my daughters is because we’re both ready for this commitment. If we weren’t ready, he wouldn’t be meeting them. Are we moving too fast too soon?