What should I do???

This guy and I have talking for 8 months within these 8 months while he was away I waited 2 months for him with no contact or anything for the last say 5 months he’s been asking for a lot of money saying he’d pay it back but never does I’ve leant him all up around $700, we see each other weekly we are close to dating but he hasn’t asked me out out I tried to ask him but he wanted to talk about it in person that never happened.

We are arguing weekly atm right now we are arguing about the fact I went on his phone as I was sus about something, I know I did the wrong thing but he’s legit making me feel like shit he told me he was done yesterday then not long after that he said he needed time to think I’m so confused wether I should stay or leave?

From day one I’ve told him everyday that he makes me happy an that I really like him as time passed I have began to fall in love with him I remind him every of how much he means to me, how much I love him ect

I feel like with him especially right now I’m getting ignored I’m willing to make changes drive an hour and abit so we can talk but it seems like he’d rather drink he’s problems away and hang out with his girl best friend which I have no problem with but I wish he’d sort this out.

I feel like shit he does make me really happy tho when we aren’t arguing

I have fallen for this man bent backwards for him and all he can do is ignore my messages? He says he loves me?

He brought this up yesterday after I thought when I stayed there last we had resolved it we did actually as I asked multiple times if we were okay he said yes

I’m a mess Rn someone please give some supportive advice no hate please