Anyone else’s man change after finding out y’all were expecting?

We’re expecting in May and recently he’s become very mean. Slamming hands down, smacking them. All because I don’t wanna eat somewhere or because I ask him to help out around the house. What can I do? How do I make this better.

I’ve tried talking but it seems when I do he’s hostile..

Not gonna lie I’ve been moody as hell recently, it gets worse after he goes off and I end up crying or in a worse mood. How can I change this relationship? Please help