When long distance stops being long distance.

So I’ve been dating this guy online for a few months. We’d been friends for over a year before we even started flirting. I recently moved to the US for work.

Changing our distance from countries to a few states. And we’ve talked about meeting irl. Which is great, i really like him. And he really likes me. Still figuring out how to make that happen with both of us in demanding jobs.

After i build a good rep at work, he wants me to tranfer to his state so I could move in. I like the thought, but it’s still scary to move cross country by myself again even further from my family.

Does anyone have any advice for me?