Do you like to be told “you’re big” during pregnancy?

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Obviously when you’re pregnant you’re belly gets bigger and you might even gain noticeable weight.
But do you like it when people comment on your size or when people say “ you’re getting big” 
“You’ve had a growth spurt”
“Wow looks like you might have a big baby”
“Wow you’ve got a big bump” 
I’m been told this a few times by different people, I’m 32 weeks I KNOW MY BELLY IS BIGGER but please don’t tell me I look big, pregnancy is a beautiful thing but I’m feeling insecure enough about weight gain etc as it is I don’t need people telling me that I’m “big” and “huge” 
Would much rather no comment at all or compliment me saying I look great. 
Just doesn’t make me feel good😣😣

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I think it’s rude and offensive.

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I'm not bothered by those comments. I definitely am big and getting bigger everyday. It's all natural and it's whats supposed to happen. I don't let it get to me.

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Sometimes it gets my attention but I turn it into a compliment. “Thanks! She’s growing up super healthy and strong!”

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Unfortunately everyone makes those comments! I learned to just embrace them! Don’t take them so personal girl I know it’s so hard being pregnant and not feeling confident in yourself but what I tell myself is that this baby weight is temporary! Literally!

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The “you’re big” comments don’t get to me as much as the “OMG you’re still here” when people see me at work. Like yes, if I’m standing in front of you obviously I have not had my baby yet. Thank you for pointing that out. The last 2 weeks are hard enough and I obviously would love my baby boy here just as much as you all do but come on 😩

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I think it goes both ways. You're small or you're big. My mom would tell me I wasn't really showing and that would piss me off. But my husband would tell me how big my belly was (he was saying it cuz he was proud so it didn't bother me). But if someone else had mentioned my belly being big, I would've been pissed

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I hate it. Like no shit asshole I see my belly everyday. I know it’s big. You don’t have to tell me

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No. I’m already a bigger woman and then when I pregnant I get a huge belly and ppl always comment. It’s irritating. If I don’t know you keep your mouth shut.

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It doesn’t bother me, I know my weight gain has been healthy and I’m measuring on track so anyone else’s opinion doesn’t matter.

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I seriously don't care. I'm pregnant. I'm supposed to put on weight, my belly is supposed to get big. That's literally the process of creating a new human being from almost nothing. And the reality is I seem to be carrying bigger this pregnancy than with our first son.

Do you like to be told “you’re big” during pregnancy?

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