Bleeding after your first time is normal. There is a physical barrier called a hymen that gets broken when you first have sex. So he actually did rip you, though the bleeding and pain shouldn't last long. Wait it out. Maybe try some coconut oil or something similar to help. If you bleed a lot or continuously, or if you feel that you are severely ripped, or if your pain lasts longer than a day or so, you should go see your doctor. 

The time it takes to heal depends on how bad the tear is. I have seen them so bad they have to come to us in surgery to be fixed. I would go see your dr or urgent care to make sure it doesn't need stitches.