2nd birthday

I am looking to do something for my 30th next April 2021 (I’d Covid is officially under control by then).... however it’s my little ones 2nd birthday at the beginning of March 2021. At that time, we’ll also have a 2-4 week old newborn. I’m really concerned about actually having people over for all the virus related reasons and having 2 very small little ones.... and the same thing again for my birthday in April. Do you think it would be wise to have a belated get together in the summer 2021?

I know it’s a bit far away, but I’m actually really worried about how to juggle such an important event for my little ones birthday. For the first birthday, we had everyone over ( everyone lives about 3 hours drive away) and we told everyone that we were only doing lunch from 11am.... some people didn’t leave until 7!!!! I was starving s I couldn’t cook for myself without offering others we hadn’t catered for that. I definitely couldn’t have visitors for that long with a newborn for her 2nd birthday - just another issue in also worried about.

What is everyone doing for birthdays during the COVID season?