No negativity!!! We are expecting a little girl in April and we decided we want to co-sleep. She is our first and we just don't think we will want her in another room. We want her close enough to us where we don't have to worry. We love each other and value alone time but when it comes down to it, we want her next to us. We want her to feel close and safe between us. We were thinking of not really pushing her into her own room until shes about 5. We just dont see the point. We never thought we would be pro-cosleeping but ever since we found out its a girl we've been so protective. We just want her with us. We want to give her that security and feeling that we are here to take care of her. I was hoping to hear some success stories and reasons why it is best for baby and parents. Thanks !!