my family doesn’t like my boyfriend

basically what the title says. i know it shouldn’t matter bc he’s only my boyfriend and we’re too young to be talking abt marriage and/or forever love but it bothers me how insensitive my family can be towards him. his family doesn’t make as much money as us and my mom thinks he’s like a bum and that him and his family are only using me for money. that’s not true at all, they have never asked me for anything and my boyfriend and i barely spend money on eachother and when we do its equal. i hate that my family is very judgemental and toxic towards my friends and boyfriend and it seems like it’s only me that they do it to. for example, my mom always greets my brothers friends and his wife’s family members and she always tries to engage in conversation with them. but when my friends come over she would interrogate them and make them feel like she’s judging them. and with my boyfriend it’s 10x worse because she actually judges him in front of his face. my brothers never greet my boyfriend when he comes over even though i had always been kind to their girlfriends/ friends. my family makes my boyfriend feel shitty about himself whenever he comes over and it’s embarrassing for me because that’s the family i grew up in. it makes me depressed seeing these are the people i live with and i try to speak to them about it and all they say is that the people i’m surrounded by are loser and that i can do so much better when in reality the only people i let come over are my closest friends and they’re the nicest ones i’ve ever had (i’ve had very bad ones in the past) i really need to move out :(