How would you feel?

My bf and I have been together for 3 years and I’m 14weeks pregnant.. when we first found out, we decided to tell close family, like his mom and dad and mine, so when we went to go tell his father.. side note, he’s a very conservative person and can be harsh.. anyways, when my bf said I was pregnant, he just looked at me and said okay congratulations.. and started going on about how a child needs two parents and we can’t split up and if we can’t give the baby what it deserves then we should terminate. And he tried to cover himself by saying his values and morals and religion he doesn’t believe in abortions and stuff like that but yet offered me up for one. Well I was madly offended by this because we’re not children, we’re not married either but that doesn’t mean we can’t be good parents. My Fils daughter had her son at 21, my bf is 22 and I am 21. So I’m not sure why he gave me that speech. So after that, I have been on the iffy side with him because that was harsh. Now when he sees me, he just waves and says hello, doesn’t even acknowledge my pregnancy or the fact that he’s going to be a grandfather and that’s okay because my son is very loved. He just rubs me the wrong way, when my bf and I started dating, a few weeks into it or maybe months, he would tell my bf that he shouldn’t limit himself to one chick, and he could have as many girls as he wants... again, I was offended by this as well. He just doesn’t seem to like me very much, he’s always giving me a hard time and my bf one time mentioned that his wife, my bfs step mom didn’t like me because I’m not from where they are from. And I think that really came from the dad because that lady is so kind always offering to cook for me and take care of me... sorry for the long rant.