You would think after having arguments and me telling my husband my feelings about him making excuses to not sit through my appointments for HIS son that he would suck it up for the last one or two and be supportive but no.

(Before I get into it I'm not explaining why I want him there and why I won't drive myself)

Anyways, he's been putting off grocery shopping for weeks and now we are so low that I have to think about what to eat, canned green beans or the last box of mac and cheese (we also need water but he doesn't care). My appointment is Thursday at 1:45 and he said we could wait until then to go and he could drop me off and go buy the groceries.

That is an excuse to not be with me at my 39 week appointment where important things will be discussed that he needs to be a part of. So naturally I'm pissed.

I'm mad because for one he makes all kinds of excuses to not be with me at the appointments to stay informed about his wife's health and HIS son.

Also I'm mad because for the last 4 appointments he's complained or refused to take me but he will run to a car parts store or make a tobacco run if he needs tobacco.

Also, he isn't the one who stays here when he works. He works of a night and comes home at 7 in the morning and sleeps all day and sometimes he doesn't eat because he doesn't want to but I tell him we need to actually go grocery shopping now because we're so low on food I almost have nothing to eat here and he puts it off, but he recently ran out to buy a part for a truck he doesn't even work on and that won't even be on it for god knows how long because instead of working on it he sits around all day or works on his dad's crappy car.

So I am irritated to the point of staying away from him until he goes to work in a little over 2 hours.

The main thing that pissed me off was him making an excuse to not come with me to the ob when it's his son too AND THE APPOINTMENT IS 2 DAYS AWAY and he's ALREADY making excuses. Even if he doesn't to in he will still be sitting in the parking lot waiting so either way he's stuck waiting, but he'd rather do other things and abandon me than stay with me.

When he does this I question my decision of if I want him with me at the birth or not