I’ve been with my fiancé for 3 years, he had no children and from the start stated he wanted kids. We now have a 5 month year old and we do not live together due to us both having our own apartments.

I started university yesterday and asked him if he could take the baby as he is off work for stress. He said he will take the baby to his mums who hasn’t been too well recently.

I told him it’s ok I will take baby to my mums.

He stayed over at mine that night and left at 5am to go to the gym.

I left out early in the morning, took the baby to my mums, drove past his house on the way to university knowing he was probably just relaxing .

I left uni, picked up my baby and went home around 4pm.

I had a client that wanted a treatment done and asked my partner if he would watch the baby for an hour. He replied yes but I he’s not going to say what he’s thinking but will be at mine for 8pm.

I asked him what the problem was & he said that I keep asking him for things without giving him any notice even though I gave him 3 hours notice knowing he was just at home.

We had an argument about it and he said that he doesn’t want me to ask him for anything & I don’t appreciate that he had our baby when I went into hospital for a few hours.

I don’t appreciate that he had the baby for one whole day & night once in 3 weeks he was off work.

Everytime I ask him for help, there’s always an atmosphere or I don’t get a straight answer.

I have the baby everyday and night & trying to make a better life for us. I feel like if I can’t ask him for help then what’s the point of continuing our relationship?

Am I being unreasonable???