About my past? My mil is a very indirect person, I have a feeling she or her daughter has tried to look into my past. Her daughter started following me on Instagram & I had alot of old posts I didnt want them to see, although I deleted it I know it's too late. I had old posts before I had my bf regarding an old relationship & I'm sure his sister went & told her mom. I also stupidly blurted out that I was in a relationship with someone that lied to me & had a girlfriend the whole time & she was pregnant- ouch. Remembering at that moment bought back negative feelings & I wish I wouldnt have told her. She said she wouldnt tell my bf but i still regret it, now she has a different perspective of me & we already had alot of problems and differences. When my bf (hes the father of my kids) & I met he said he didnt want to know anything before my past relationships. I never cared & often asked about his but he never wanted to tell me. 5 years later I got use to this idea of not knowing & I think it would be too late to know or it would bring negative feelings. Idk what to do, now I have to pretend like she doesnt know anything & I'm scared about what they think of me or if they tell him. She recently told him about some old conversations her & I had & a text that I sent her a long time ago & he started being indirect with that & I got so livid, then next conversation her & i had i told her we got into a really big arguement because somehow it seemed like he found out about alot of stuff & she got defensive. The worse thing is that I work with her & I dont know how to deal with this. shes always bringing up the past & negative feelings.