My fiancé is always home late!! And it’s driving me absolutely crazy!!

My fiancé is always late to everything but especially coming home, usually he’s late by hours. Usually I wouldn’t be too fussed as he doesn’t go out that much and when he does it’s with his friends but he lost his key to the flat recently so we only have one between us which makes leaving the house really difficult while we wait for a replacement (5 weeks now my renting agency is horribly slow) but we usually work around it.

But today he really pushed me over the edge! I asked him last night if he has any plans for today and he replied just work till 4 and I’ll be home. At 1pm he decides to tell me that he’s meeting his friends and will be home by 7, then 7 turned to 9. Its currently 9:30 and I’m still waiting!!! I don’t mind him spending time with his friends but if I knew he was going to be home so late i would’ve went out and got some things done and it’s my day off. It just really drives me crazy cause I could’ve gotten so much done. My sister also asked me to come help her out today as she’s not too well (not covid) and has a 5month old baby and I was unable to go as I was expecting him a lot earlier and I didn’t want him locked out.

I am overreacting? I’m angry to the point that I don’t even want to see his face today! And it’s not the first time sometimes he will stay out till 12-1am when he knows I have to work the next day and he is always consistently late. I just think it’s so inconsiderate as he’s the one that lost his key. I spoke to him about his timing issues etc so many times but it’s just not working what else can I do?!?!

His phone is also always dead as he never charges it even though I always tell him to, which makes getting ahold of him when he’s late a nightmare!