It's impossible to nest with a 2 year old!

I have this overwhelming urge to clean and get everything set up for baby. But every time I do something, my 2 yearold is destroying something. Everything I need to do is in her room, since they will be sharing. So I cant wait until She's napping. Today I tried to put all the baby clothes away...she took every single book off the shelf and dumped out her toy bins. Within a minuite.

Im so stressed out because we dont even have the bassinet set up. I want everything to look clean for 5 minuites. My husband can't help because he works 12 hour days and gets home at bedtime. He also doesnt understand why Im upset. He told me to get over it and why do I bother trying to clean up when I know she is going to dump everything.

Any tips for cleaning and dealing with a tornado toddler?