Good sign? Or red flag?

I recently started dating a guy, only a couple dates and we slept together, but we haven’t talked about any “boyfriend/girlfriend” labels

Yesterday we went out shopping together, nothing big, we just went around looking at Halloween decor, and he brought up he already planned what to do/ get me for my birthday, which is Oct 30.

I really really like this guy and, from the way he acts, he seems to like me too.

I think it’s a good sign, but part of me wonders if it could be a red flag.

I’ve dated guys in the past who were incredibly toxic and I guess I’m just waiting for the other show to drop

So far he has been the best thing I could’ve asked for, he’s already talking about meeting my family and stuff.