When you had your second baby did you feel more confident about being a mom and knowing what you’re doing? Was it a feeling of I did this once I can do it again or do you feel like it’s the same learning curve with the first?

I have babysat my niece since birth, she’s now 2 and she is so entirely naughty. (I have her for such a short time that any discipline on my part is lost and she gets zero parenting at home.) I also now have my own 10 month old and yesterday I was completely overwhelmed with having 2. I’ve always wanted more kids but if my niece is any indication of how having 2 will be I’m afraid I won’t manage it well. I’m wondering if it’s easier when those 2 are your own or if you still feel like what did I get myself into?