He thought I would be a mess!!!!

So I've been with my ex for little over 2 years ... i moved in with my child because we loved each other plus we had plans. I wanted to started back school in 2019 he told me to hold off because we were trying to buy a house together in 2020 and he thought it would be difficult to go to sch, work and save, needless to say I listened to him. For 1.5 years I put up with his disrespect, alcoholic, cant think straight motherfucker, think he knows it all, can't accept an independent woman cuz i make more money than him, jealous, piece of crap, only fk to please his self...... im sure you all got the story...lol..... the entire time he had me thinking we were still going to buy the house etc and I was dumb again to put off school. I had a feeling he was jealous or better yet insecure of me making wayyy much more money than he did but I was in love and blind. I saw all the signs but yet still I held on. Then he broke up with me , he told me he is not happy any more and he is going to move out cuz we rent so my response was , " ok" because I REFUSE to BEG a man to stay with me then he said, " thats it?".... our lease is up in October so he knew what he was planning on doing, I almost quit my job because I couldn't find a babysitter and he didn't want any1 in the house thank God for my mom....... .... I know who I am and what im going to be few years from now so I've been in the gym, and getting prepared for school.....I know when we are in love we put up with bullshit but please run at ur 1st red flag!!!!!!.....i got too much shit to lose to be crying over a dude so I packed all his shit in the livingroom, stopped cooking for him, stopped doing his laundry, gave him back all his crap and currently waiting for him to move out. I've been in the gym ever since and im loving my results....... kick that fk boy to the curb!!!!!!