What would you do if you hadn’t had sex in a year?

So my husband has not had sex with me in almost a year. Since my son was born 2 years ago we have had sex once.

I’m just over asking for it. He doesn’t ever make any advances at me anymore. I was joking to someone today, I wish my life was like a fairytale porno movie - happy, loving, respectful as can be with each other, and then can’t get enough of one another physically. I’m a very sexual woman, and find myself taking care of myself multiple times a week, if not every day.

He sleeps on the couch every night, and if he does come in he usually snores really loud, so I get up and go to another room.

We don’t go out just the two of us, and haven’t in almost a year.

There is no passion anymore.

He will say you are the bestest mom ever, and that’s it. He doesn’t show me that he appreciates me. I do so much for this man, more than anyone ever should for another person, married or not.

I am a very happy person normally, but my marriage doesn’t fulfill me anymore.

I hate to say it, but I see him more as a financial partner than a husband. I feel him more as a room mate than a partner, best friend, husband etc.

I’m not sure what else to do.

Done the counseling thing before, works well for a few months and then back to “this”!

I know I am a desirable woman, but I feel it’s locked up inside now. I’m not going to lie, I’ve had men hit on me multiple times, and it feels great.

I feel my passion, my everything came out in the very beginning of our relationship, but after putting yourself out there physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and getting rejected, being not appreciated, verbally abused, I’m not sure what else I can give.

I am just not happy. I have no one here. Not financially stable enough on my own to support myself and my son. At least I don’t think I am. I do work full time in an office. My son is in daycare full time, and my husband travels 3-4 days a week for work.

My family, mom and dad, live in London, so they aren’t an option for help.

Just need to figure out my next step in my life or what other options are out there. I only have one chance at my life, and one chance at offering my little guy the world.