How long does ur partner last in bed ?

It’s frustrating having sex with my partner, seems like I’m racing him to finish before he does that I can’t even enjoy it , I have expressed this to him before and he’s tried different pills like the rhino ones and numbing lotions and nothing works 😏 seems like I can only finish by being on top where I control the movements and even then sometimes he beats me I don’t know what to do anymore without lashing out at him any suggestions or recommendations would be highly appreciated Cause two min ain’t working for me 🤦🏽‍♀️