Me and my partner got engaged and ever since it feels like nearly everyone has decided to start shit with us.

I didn't want bridesmaids? Got nagged into having them.

After giving in and having bridesmaids? The dresses I've said I'd prefer are no longer modest, classy or timeless. Now I'm fighting to not have dresses that dont match my colour themes but also not to have Jessica Rabbit style dresses, colour, thigh high slit and full cleavage included.

I find out now multiple people are coming forward saying they dont like me or my husband to be, yet are still inviting themselves to my wedding and I cant say no without causing WW3.

We asked not to mark unnecessary plus ones because frankly we are on a budget and I'm still getting weekly calls from the same people asking for a plus one with multiple people I've never met.

Honestly if marriage didnt mean so much to me at this point I wouldnt even bother but we have planned out, wedding, house, babies ect and that's been my goal for as long as I can remember but it's getting so irritating that everyone thinks their opinions and wants matter more than ours on our wedding day.

I've cut people off since being engaged because of this shit, a near decade friendship included because they got weird about my engagement and I have no regrets but now family are peeking up to join in on this all and I'm so tired of it.

Honestly I dont know weather to just completely change the whole venue and not invite them or to just hire security to keep this shit show as smooth as I can.

Opinions? Advice? Like anything pls

**the plan was to have a small, like less than 40 people wedding btw