Asking too much?

If you bought you and your bf a ticket to a haunted house and spend over $80. And wanted to hang out before it. Mind you I still gotta put my kid to bed at 830 and then it’s at 930. So I figured he gets off work around 2 and then he lives 45 min away so he would just come over and then we can go together. His excuse is I don’t wanna drive and be in the car that long. Let’s just meet there and do it and then we can just go home after. I am loosing my shit over it and just basically said I could careless to go and he can have the tickets and take someone else. How would you guys take it? Would you be okay with just meeting up and going thru it and then going home after because it’s “too much” driving?