More and more conflicted

So me an bf decided on Akari Leielle for our upcoming daughters name, we have a 2 year olds son Kamari Juelz.

I haven’t officially said the name to many others other than here and only 2 people (my mom and a friend) has really said they liked it....(MIL hates it, few friends don’t like the first name)

My MIL has expressed that it sounds boyish and others say it’s too close to my sons name. Now all the sudden my bf says it sounds like a boys name 😡 mind you he picked the first name (I found it he picked it from a list I made)

I’m so confused I spent so much time looking (finding unique A names is very hard). it’s killing me cause I feel like I can’t feel close to my baby cause she’s nameless I thought of looking again but my mom said “f$@k that”

idk what to do 😫😭 I’m so nervous to share the name to anyone else now