I want to stop hurting, but don’t want to lose my husband

I am 11 weeks pregnant, my husband is consistently at his friends every day for hours after work. It is an ongoing issue. We don’t go on dates or hangout.. when we are together at home we do laugh a bit. I love him to pieces just tired of feeling last. He know how I feel as I talk to him all the time. I am usually calm and patient. I am becoming angry. Years/months of praying for him. He told me today I can’t force him to change which is very true... as anyone had a similar situation...

I am so hurt and tired of felling lonely. I got to church by myself and spend most of my weekends alone.