“Men will be men”

I’m so tired of always hearing the old saying of “men will be men”. No. If a man truly wants to be with you, they will. Why can’t we stop blaming their actions on this?? No one says “women will be women” when she sleeps around. She’s called a slut and shamed for it. It’s okay for men to sleep around (and they will also brag about it) but not women. Double standards are absolutely ridiculous, yet everyone keeps going by them. Stop normalizing and excusing this behavior.