Trigger warning****
This may be lengthy but please read. Staying anonymous for obvious reasons.
When I was younger my sister and I were sexually abused by my older brother. My sister and I were really close in age(18 month age gap) and honestly inseparable. The abuse stopped for me one day when he almost raped me and I told him I didn't care if it got me killed I'd tell everyone if he ever touched me again... well I went into a downward spiral after that. He did leave me alone aside from inappropriate comments etc. It never occurred to me it would continue with my sister. He would tell us he always "preferred " her because I was very thin and had a more athletic build where as my sister had boobs and a butt and was thicker. "Guys liked that better." Long story short, my sister and I grew apart over the years and she told me recently that the abuse had stopped when he started dating(he's 5-6 years older than us both). We never discussed it again. A few years down the road I got pregnant with my high school sweethearts child(my father hated him and growing up my father was abusive to us) so we broke things off for the sake of bringing our child into a toxic relationship/situation. Anyways, I had just found out I was pregnant at 18 and newly single, living on my own and emotionally unstable... my sister decided to come clean and tell everyone that my brother RAPED HER when she was 16 years old. Everyone denied it and told her she was lieing. I distanced myself for the sake of myself and my child because I wasn't ready to admit to what happened in the past, I had to much going on. More time passes and my sister tries to commit suicide, denies help I offered her (which I get, I have alot of guilt for not backing her up). My sister and I have finally been in contact again and she now has a child and I have 3. I'm married to my high school sweetheart and I have finally come clean to him with what happened as far as my brother and dad. I have opened up to my sister and offered her an apology and we both went and told my mom everything. Well here's the thing, my mom has done NOTHING. She let my dad abuse us while she stood and watched. He abused her too. She still visits my brother(he has 2 kids including a DAUGHTER who is 5😭). He is now abusing his kids and wife. WHAT WOULD YOU DO? My sister doesn't want to step up and say anything because she is in a rocky situation with custody of her child due to drinking and being incarcerated etc. My mom seems bothered she can't keep up the image of a perfect family anymore because we realize what happened to us was not okay. I'm trying to heal from this all and move on but it haunts me my abuser has child and is getting away with sexual abuse and rape!
Theres so much more but this was already too long. PLEASE HELP.
EDIT: I don't have proof he is abusing his kids and wife aside from her telling me hes thrown the kids across the living room and he punches holes all over the house shattered their tv etc. I used to be close to his wife but she has let him convince her that I'm the problem so I blocked them all out of my life so I can heal for myself and my family. I've dealt with so many issues due to this all and had suicidal thoughts that made me realize it's time to dig deep and heal.
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