Anal?

hi everyone,

so i’ve been with my man for a few years now and he’s always asked me about anal and whether im open to it.

from the beginning i said nooo just bc it’s really not something thats interesting to me at all. i don’t want stuff going in my ass yknow.

however, since we’ve been together for a while and i know he still really wants to do it with me i guess i’m more open to it?

any recommendations for first time anal? i know to use lube but i’m afraid of the pain and i’m afraid of shitting on him 😭😭

thank you!!