Husband vent

Is anyone else in a situation in which you want to vent to your husband, or at least talk about what is stressing you out or what chaos has insued when you were home with your two little babies all day.... But your very cheery husband gets mad at you because he thinks you're just complaining? I'm currently afraid to say anything to him because it's making the situation worse. Yet at the same time, you are my husband and I'm home all day and want to talk to you ! I'm not sure I have enough energy to fake it. Maybe I do sound to complainy and just need to snap out of it? Yet he's not exactly cheery on the weekends when he takes a shift with our infant at night either. (Babies are 20 months and 7 weeks)

Side note: he's phenomenal and does so much around the house and with the kids.