Am I wrong ? He was yelling and swearing/calling me names.

Long story short my boyfriend needed to make a few important phone calls today. I warned him about it a million times as it gives me anxiety whenever he needs to make calls because he ends up getting all pissy for some reason and ends up not doing them all EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. I don’t know why...I don’t feel like this is normal, but idk...

I was annoyed because there’s so many to be made and we planned to do it during our sons nap so we could focus. But he procrastinated and didn’t start until 20 minutes before our son woke up.

Anyways, he was on hold with someone for about 20 minutes and the wait time was 60. I noticed he was scrolling through Instagram and such on his phone while he was on hold. Our baby woke up so I went upstairs to get him. All I heard was “FUCK” I asked what happened, he said he hung up. I said “why? Because you were on instagram...” I was laughing. I just meant it as you were distracted so you made a mistake.

He got super pissed off and started yelling. He said “no I wasn’t...I was on Home Depot looking at parts i need for a job I’m going to do” he was just getting more and more angry. He started calling me names. I just said “ok you have a great day” and went to walk upstairs.

He said “no you’re not, I have calls to make” I just said “I don’t care, I’m not going to be spoken to like that...” he started following me up the starts and then I went into our room and he slammed the bathroom door. Literally left our 2 year old child downstairs. AND while arguing and calling me names in front of him which I ALWAYS telling him not to do that. He doesn’t care. He always does it no matter what. I’m always the one that’s the bigger person and leave the situation or talk calmly infront of our child.

Just as I was about to come out of the room so our son wouldn’t be downstairs alone, he open the bathroom door said I’m fucked and I just heard a bunch of banging so I’m assuming he was hitting, punching, breaking things or something which h doesn’t at times when he’s angry.

He kept mumbling things, I was trying not to listen as I don’t want to upset myself even more. I’m pregnant and have been super stressed lately, so I’m trying my best to ignore.

Am I wrong??? I’m so frustrated with the way he acts all the time. I feel like I can’t even ask him to do things because he gets all worked up and pissy and tells me he’s not going to be doing things his whole life...what does that even mean? I’m not a nagger either (at least I don’t think I am). I mean it took him 4 months to hang up curtains and the day he finally went to do it he got pissed off because he wasn’t hitting a stud in the wall and yelled at me and didn’t finish them all (while I was pregnant btw).