When will it be my turn? Been trying for a year now. 😢😞

Question

My husband and I have been pregnant twice and I have one living child. We can’t get pregnant now and I wish I knew why. Went to the doctor and all my labs are fine. Waiting for a semen analysis in November but really doubt it is my husband if we have conceived before. Anyone have similar experiences? Took a test and it is negative. I am 10 dpo. 😔I am so sick of seeing negative tests but at the same time, I am so used it that I don’t ever expect it to work at this point. Been taking temps and I am pretty sure I am not pregnant. Need some hope right now from any stories similar to ours that ended in a healthy baby.

Answer

Hey there! I don’t have a story that ends in a healthy pregnancy but I can relate to your situation exactly! We have a beautiful healthy 3 year old that we conceived basically without even trying. This time around trying for #2 however, 1 year and one misscarriage later and still no baby. 
I can totally relate to your disappointment with negative test after test. I don’t ever expect to be pregnant anymore and quite honestly I am ready to give up and accept the fact that we might only have one child :( 
We have done all the testing (except sperm testing because it got cancelled thanks to COVID). Everything seems normal. I am slowly losing hope. 
If you ever need to chat I am here!

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I am sorry. I would ask for a transvaginal ultrasound to check your lining mid cycle. 
In your labs did they run cycle day 3 and cycle day 20?

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Don’t give up hope!  It took us 18 months with our youngest, and her older brother we got it the first month.  Crazy

When will it be my turn? Been trying for a year now. 😢😞

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