Herpes

How do u do dates after. Like I feel bad not telling them the first date even though I’m not having sex with them I wanna wait until it’s serious to tell them or to have sex now. But I still feel weird not telling them yet.. I feel like they’re gonna judge me n leave. I just found out I have it btw a couple of days ago. I’ve been taking meds for like 3 days but the sores are still there..