No sexual attraction?

Question

Me and my bf been dating 8 months. In the begging I feel like he would always be flirty and sexual with me. But in our 8 months we have only had sex 2 times. And in the begging he would always screenshot my sexy pictures I send now it’s just hear eyes and that’s all I get. Is that weird am I being dramatic or what?!?

Answer

You probably aren't a good match for each other! The sooner the better you talk to him about this the less chance you're going to drag each other down the road .be like four years later and realize you wasted both your times.

Answer

It sounds like the honeymoon phase is over, things have gotten boring and routine, welcome to reality. When it comes to relationships, friendship is the corner stone, when you can have fun together, and hang out, have sex, talk and laugh and have fun, it’s a package deal, relationships are what you make them, the more effort that you put it in, and are consistent with that effort, that’s what makes things last,. It shouldn’t just be one person making all the effort, otherwise it becomes draining until you want out. The guy am currently with, I have no one 20 years, We are like best friends, we can watch a football game and have sex during the game and root for his favorite team, we can text message all day long whether he is working or is doing whatever he likes to do whether he’s playing golf or whatever it may be. But friendship is the corner stone to a relationship, making effort every single day, effort and consistency is key. When someone gets lazy any other person has to pick up the slack, you need to have a conversation. Never chase after a man. Never let a man tell you he doesn’t want you twice. You deserve better than that. I would talk to him, tell him I feel we need to spend more time together, I feel we need to have more date nights, I feel we need need to have and emotional connection more, I feel we need to talk more, I feel we need to have sex more or be intimate or whatever it may be that you feel is lacking in the relationship. Use phrases like I feel we, not you always or you never, then they feel cornered and defensive and you never get anywhere screaming and fighting and yelling,nothing ever gets resolved, but I feel we is better than accusing or being defensive etc.￼ good luck

No sexual attraction?

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