Pizza husband is at it again... I can't keep doing this.

A few weeks ago I posted about how my husband suggested we get pizza, I ordered it and he took way too long to collect it and I found out that he had gone drinking at the bar next door with his buddy and two chicks instead of collecting our pizza.

Today, this same friend came over for a BBQ but my husband was supposed to go drop him back off at work (where his car is) before we actually started cooking the meat. We live five minutes from work. It's storming here and after half an hour, I tried to phone my husband to find out where he was (heaven forbid he was in an accident or something).

I can't reach him, so I give it 15 minutes. I go put the meat on the BBQ in the meantime, thinking that he's going to be home soon.

Another 10 minutes goes by and he's still not home. I try call him again, no answer. I send a couple of messages voicing my concern at where he is and no answer.

So I phoned his friend (I had his number from the last time he phoned me and asked if my husband could have a drink with him) to find out that they're at the bar! My husband actually ditched the BBQ he and I were supposed to have to go drinking!!!!

I am at a complete loss for words, I am so upset at this. I mean he literally left me, KNOWING I've been waiting all day to BBQ with him, to go drinking! I'm so hurt, I can't even explain.

And I know when he comes home, all he's going to say is "I wasn't even gone long, it's only 8pm". He doesn't even understand what the problem is. He doesn't understand (or maybe he doesn't care) what he does.

***The storm kind of came out of nowhere. I moved the BBQ under the covers though so nothing got wet. I have no clue why he's doing this, I think his friend is a bad influence. I mean he went drinking last weekend and we had no issues because he communicated and answered his phone when our food delivery had arrived and he wasn't home yet (and again, he insisted that he would be home for dinner). I just don't get it. He's like taking every opportunity to just ditch me and it's been almost a YEAR since I went out with him but he just drops me and our BBQ to go drinking with his friend.