I’m specifically asking if anyone has gotten pregnant on their first cycle following their miscarriage?..

We had a miscarriage at 9 weeks and had a d&c on September 4th. Almost two months ago. I told my fiancé I wanted to wait to try again, even though we got the okay to start as soon as I’d had my first period. Which I did, and I’m “due” for my next in 7 days. I’m sure a miscarriage and a d&c can mess with your cycle.

Well even though I wanted to wait, we weren’t as careful as we should have been on one occasion. I’ve been having slight pings of cramping way low in my abdomen, and have been feeling a touch emotional. Both present enough for me to notice on a daily basis. I’m waiting to test, because I truly don’t want to know yet. And as much as we want another child, I’m terrified that my body isn’t ready to experience a healthy pregnancy this soon. And I worry that if anything happens again, I’ll blame myself to getting pregnant too soon.