Need opinions, AITA
My boyfriend and I agreed to take a break last night. The chances of us making it work are pretty slim I think. We dated about 6 months or so and he asked me to move in with him after about maybe the second month. So like the dummy I am, I did. He's a great guy, we get along, we like some of the same things, and he loves my dog. We actually met at the dog park :) But anyway, its the morning after and I hurt his feeling because I told him I dont need him to be my friend right now. I've told him before that I wouldn't be able to go from relationship to "friend thats happy to see him" overnight. I feel bad cause I could see it on his face that it really hurt him. But last night, I felt so freaking happy that I didn't have to worry about someone else for awhile. I could just worry about me and do what I want for myself. I could decorate that other room exactly how I like it and how I want it. And it felt amazing. But there's him. Maybe I should go out of my way to try to be more civil and nice. Its not like it'd be a huge inconvenience, but at the same time, I dont feel like I should have to. He kept asking me if he could hug me, and last night he asked if I'd sit in the living room and watch tv while he works in there. He wants me to stay here but I've told him I'm leaving when I can afford to. I dont know what to do. I feel like he wanted the perfect girlfriend, didn't get that, now wants that perfect ex girlfriend who he's still nest friends with and did everything the girlfriend did. But I've told him before thats not going to happen. Thoughts?
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