My husband just plays video games all the time (literally) and watched YouTube videos. We just got back from a 'vacation' where he chose to stay in the hotel watching videos rather than spend time with me and our son at a beach. I feel like I'm worthless as a wife... but I don't know if it's just cause I'm extremely lonely and crave attention that I'm not getting. We haven't had sex in ages either.

Before you suggest counseling or talking to him, tried it. I'm in counseling now. He won't go. I don't want to split bc I don't want to share custody with my kid (and one on the way)