Too much!!

So I’m asking for a friend as she’s not got the app and I told her about it so she’s eager for some different opinion’s!

Her boyfriend and her have been together for over a year now and are a strong couple, however he’s in the army so they only see each other for a week or 2 every month. (Bearing in mind she has to work during that too). And she finds that her sex drive isn’t exactly what it used to be but he’s just sex mad, and that it turns her off when he’s eager or “beggy” for sex and that she’s told him it turns her on if he doesn’t beg or act so eager for it because she can feel more dominant or like she’s in control.

They’ve had a lot of arguments and such over the topic and she’s tried everything to make him see her point of view! She feels it will be the end of them because she’s not sure how much longer she can put up with it, literally when he walks through the door it’s sex on his mind! And my advice to her was you need the love and everything before the sex, as sex is not the most important thing and she agreed. They’ve tried to compromise: so she will be more affectionate and he will be less eager for sex, however she feels that she’s done her part but he’s not doing his.

I need different advice or opinions or anything I can use to help her! They love each other very very much and I’d hate to see it end because of this. No one should feel like they aren’t satisfying their partner or like their partner is not into it.

Thanks!!!!❤️