Questionable Consumption for Thxgiving

PC • Mama to Cruz 💙 Kaia 💖 and Shaea to come 💗
I have not been able to wrangle my cycle for the life of me - but my nipples are incredibly sore, I have on and off cramps, no AF, and all BFN... I am hosting Thanksgiving at my house this week... To drink or not to drink? 
I've heard 'drink until pink' but I've also heard of cryptic pregnancies where no hcg is traced (leading to BFN) but you're still pregnant... I know if I don't drink my fam will know what's up and I dont want them to. Not yet. Are you in the same boat? What are your plans? What would you do?