Worst thing?

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We are not here to judge but to hear everyone’s stories. What’s the worst thing your man has done and you stayed through it?

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Got 2 girls pregnant back to back and lied to me saying they weren't his until both were born looking like him..his kids are 7 months apart

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3 years ago he texted me a sext message that WASN’T MEANT FOR ME.
We were just having a regular conversation and all of a sudden I got a message that I knew wasn’t meant for me. Dude was caught red handed.
He was using “kik” and Snapchat with strangers as like sexual chat rooms for release. He gave me his log in info and let me go through and read anything I wanted before I deleted the accounts and apps.
It hurt for a LONG time and I used to go through his phone/email all the time but I know now that he isn’t doing anything and I don’t even think about it anymore.
But man was I 😤😤😤😤😤 when it happened.

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Five years with my ex of bullshit that I tolerated. He was such a piece of shit. He cheated on me and slept with half our town, I didn’t even know. He was so irresponsible, he had tickets in every single town and it cost me a fortune to clean up all of his messages because he neglected everything and the tickets would turn into warrants an arrest and having to pay bails and impound fees etc. he was bipolar and couldn’t keep jobs, he even lived on the floor in my office for a period of time, he couldn’t keep a cell phone, I paid for everything and he basically used me and took advantage, I was emotionally attached due to having two miscarriages, and he knew I didn’t want to be alone I can get away with murder and use that to his advantage. He grew up in the system and he told his sob story to every woman to guilt and manipulate them to get what he wanted. And he used all of them and he’s just a piece of shit. He had no conscience, he felt no guilt, he felt no shame he felt no remorse, he was narcissistic, he was just an asshole that’s just the nicest way of putting it. I dealt with everything alone he was never there for me emotionally, it was all about him, nice day because I didn’t want to be alone. I walked in on him twice entertaining women while I was at work. But I will never deal with that ever again. My miscarriages were a blessing in disguise that I never had to deal with him ever again. I will never date anyone with mental health issues ever again, I will never date anyone who does not have their life together either, I honestly don’t care what a man does for a living as long as he works. I did a guy he was a valet at a casino he parked cars, I didn’t care. As long as he respects me and treats me well. I don’t chase after a man, if he stops making the effort I do as well. I tell guys this day one, I vet men like the FBI would and a background check￼￼￼. I wanna know everything before I agree to anything. Mental health, their childhood, previous relationships, if they are jealous or possessive or insecure or controlling, how they handle anger how they handle stress, will they take it out on me, you name it I wanna know it. My rock-bottom was a gang member who beat the crap out of me, I’ve been with the worst of the worst when it came to men, been raped, sexually assaulted, sexually abused as a child, I was an alcoholic by the age of 12, I could drink entire bottle of vodka and go to school and no one even knew, had ever eating disorder, burn myself cut myself, was a dominatrix, stripper, there is an anything that I can’t relate to because I’ve been through it myself which is why I’m here basically to help women to probably try and help prevent them not repeat the same mistakes that I did, trying to be the adult that I wish I would’ve had when I was younger, I never had anyone to talk to him, yet alone emotional support, my mother was never around,And if I can be of help to anyone, I tried to do so if I can’t handle it or don’t know what to tell someone I obviously refer them to a doctor or somebody who does know.￼￼. This was the only place I had to turn when I went through my miscarriages,￼ So now I try and return the favor and be there for others.

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Got a dui. He no longer drinks and drives cuz I put it downnnnnnnn. Lmao

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