Okay tell me if this makes sense...

I live in a house with 3 woman, 3 kids we all work 3 different shifts so theirs no need for daycare for our kids right? Well the kids are 7,4 & 9m well the 7yr will not respect her mom at all she actually believes her mom is her friend much rather than her mom, but honestly her mom is at fault she’s scared to place structure with her, & befriends her and allows her to be “grown”. The 7yr will respect me before her mother but I honestly do not even play that the back talk, I don’t tell a child something twice & I’m not your “girl” well I’ve stopped telling her what to do & I’ve let mom know it’s not her job. Mom has completely stopped talking me 😭 & tension is floating in the house, well she told are other mutual friend that it’s wrong of me when it’s takes a village to raise are kids like I can’t be the only one raising the kids & I can’t raise her kid. She has to do that first she’s the MOTHER not me ! She wants to be her friend which is fine but you have to mother her first at 7 it is to young to befriend her an to allow her to think it’s okay to not listen to any adult including you like it’s crazy I’m really at a lost like am I wrong?????

: OKAAAYYY 1. THANNNK YOOU. It’s difference in having a child be completely scared of you & having one respect you. She needs order she doesn’t need to be in adult conversations or in her mothers phone reading her messages going through her phone, laid up in hotels with her mom & her boyfriends. Because she doesn’t want to be left with anyone that makes her listen.