Am I supposed to enjoy it???

Ok ladies need some advice

- Earlier last year I lost my virginity to somebody that I’m no longer with, once I did I kind of had this thought in my head that I needed to lose my virginity so that gain experience provide whoever I dated next with an enjoyable experience without all the stopping and starting of an inexperienced sexual encounter. (Which is what I typically experience. Earlier this year I had sex a few other times but not a lot and it’s been some months. At I certain point decided that it was more than just a physical act to have sex with someone and that I wanted to be more cautious and quite frankly more picky lol about who I shared my body with. Over the last few months, I reconnected with someone who lives out of state and we have begun a long distance relationship. He’s probably one of the most amazing people I’ve ever met and it’s going really great so far. I went to visit him last week and we had sex for the first time. I haven’t had any sexual activity since June, which made things a little touch and go when we were trying to get into it. When got started he was a perfect gentleman, patient and communicative, couldn’t have been any more perfect that he was. But as we continued to get down (so to speak) lol, while I would get used to the sensation of his penis going in and out. I was not actually receiving any pleasure from it the penetration. When it felt like he was all the way in apparently it was not even close😩 lol, and the deeper he went the more I had to remind myself to relax in order for him to go in and out at that depth comfortably. Long story short (I just wanted you guys to have all the facts before you gave me advice LOL). I just wanted to ask is there like a certain amount of sexual activity or a certain amount of times that you have sex before you actually begin to enjoy it. I love oral sex and I definitely know what I’m doing in that department LOL, but when it comes to vaginal penetration, I’m just looking for the point where it’s supposed to start to feel good. I thought it would be more about the person that I was sleeping with rather than the action of actually sleeping with that person. (And I still believe that). Just doesn’t seem like anything changes no matter what. I really like him and have a really good connection with him and I want to be with him. I feel like I’m making progress, he has 100% gotten further than anybody else that I’ve had sex with (depth wise). But it still wasn’t really a pleasurable experience it’s just kind of the sensation of something going in and out of my body. Does this happen to anyone Else or am I crazy??? How long does it take before you start to enjoy penetrative sex???🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️